Dating a lady older than me
Don’t get me wrong, after a long day of work we may go for a quickie, but for the most part, we love to keep things new and exciting.So I met a really nice girl awhile ago, she's near perfect..me.She's got her life together, has a career, and best of all, inspires me to chase my dreams.She understands that I dont make much money, don't have the best living arrangement, or the nicest things, but she knows how it was to be in the same situation.At 30 or 40, someone who is 33 or 43 is not really that big of a jump. So don't let something so trivial ruin what could turn into a great relationship. When I was in my 20s I dated a woman about six or seven years older than me.I think it becomes a problem when the woman approaches an age where she can no longer have children.If you like her, and if she likes you back, don't be an idiot. As cliche as it sounds, within reason, age really is just a number.If y'all click mentally, emotionally, and physically who cares if she's older than you.
She's making much more than me and way ahead in life.I mean she brought it up once or twice that she wished she was younger because she felt like she wasn't able to live in the moment as much as she used to do but it didn't really cause any problems.I dated a girl who was 6 years older than me and it was a significant issue.We both acknowledge and accept this, which makes the relationship great. When it comes to age, in my experience, it really is just a number. I've dated all over the age range from a little younger to over 20 years older.One of the most mature in age that I dated, and lived with, turned out to be the biggest train wreck and immature, in mentality, I ever dated.
We have been together for two years after we dated for about 6 months.