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With such busy lifestyles, speed dating is a highly efficient way to meet the most amount of people in the shortest amount of time.
Today I am, because I make the rules and I can change them if I want to. Uh, because I went speed dating this week, and chances are, you're probably curious about what that is/whether it was fun and if you should try it, and I've got your back. (Note: I've taken measures to protect the some of the innocent, stupid, and/or ridiculous people I met last night.
Also, this story involves complete strangers, and therefore, is unlikely to come back to haunt me.
Fast Forward to last night: My girlfriends and I show up to Xino in Santa Monica, dressed up, and ready to make snap judgments about the eligibility of strange men.
I vowed to go in with an open mind, and if I didn't come out of it with a date, I'd at least have a good story.For some reason, I never thought of how heteronormative traditional speed dating is: It’s all straight men going from table to table to meet straight women.In our cases that’s fine, but I did start to think about how inclusive and welcoming an environment it could be. That was one of the first things we realized during the pre-event process: These events cast a wide net – even our age range was between 24 and 38 – and there is no telling what kind of group you’ll wind up at your event.Plus, I’m not the bargoer at 28 that I was at 23, which diminishes a regular meeting spot.In any case, my results from Bumble, Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel have been mixed, at best.
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